Memories / Fort Wayne Lima Defiance Portrait Wedding Photographers

The weather is cooler, and there are less calls and emails between now and January.  The wind is howling outside from the edge of the hurricane, and it’s just not pretty out there.  I’ve been indoors a lot this past few weeks, so I’ve been cleaning a lot.

I’ve gotten so ambitious, and honestly so curious and bored that I have decided to look inside boxes I have been moving around for years and years.  (There is a digging deep metaphor that applies here that I don’t want to be lost on you!)  My birthday is next week, which brings me to TWO years older than dirt, and it’s time to move the fur and dust inside those boxes aside, and look hard at what’s in them.

I’m a hoarder, I’ll admit it.  I had a talk with a friend many years ago when he asked me why I still had every Daytimer from the time I moved out of my parent’s house.  I opened one up, and showed him why.  “Deb’s birthday party Friday, bring rum and a blanket.”  “Going to David’s wedding?  RSVP by May.”  “I just don’t want to forget”, I told him.  (It still brings big tears to my eyes.)  “If I throw them out, I might forget.”  He gave me the biggest hug.  I kept them for a few years after that conversation, scoured them again, and then I burned them in the back yard in a slightly boozy ceremony all by myself on a night a lot like tonight.

Today I found all the notes my ex-husband and I wrote back and forth. We were too busy to see each other because we were working so hard, and they are so sweet and so dense with info while being just a fleeting message, often with arrows to who-knows-what beside the pad saying things like “enjoy, you deserve it”, etc.  We really loved each other once, before life happened to us and we handled it badly.  I found a letter my brother wrote in a birthday card that made me cry then, and makes me cry today.  (He’s wicked with words, too.)  I found letters from my sister from times when she lived far away and then I did.

Slipped in many of the envelopes today were pictures.  My daughter kept asking “What?!” as I’d sigh too loud, or burst into shrill laughter, or just a single “OH!”.  I was young and pretty once.  Other people told me, but I never believed it.  In fact quite the contrary.  My friends were young and pretty too, and we had fun.  I can prove it!

My words of wisdom for the day are these:  PRINT YOUR PICTURES.  Take the time and the effort once in a while to have something you can hold in your hand, put in your purse or wallet, and send to your friend for their fridge or their desk.  Print them so your kids and grandkids can say “You wore THAT?!”

I told a client the other day “I want to make sure you have at least one thing in your home I’m responsible for creating about which people walk in and say “WOW”!”  With all the talk, much of it mine lately, about digital files vs prints…just make sure some of your life is on hard copy.  It’s way more important than you may think right now.boys

“……………Time it was, and what a time it was, it was
A time of innocence, a time of confidences
Long ago, it must be, I have a photograph
Preserve your memories, they’re all that’s left you……”  Paul Simon

Wedding Coordinator for Your Wedding Day? YES WE CAN / Fort Wayne Wedding Photographers

Wedding coordinator for your wedding day?  Wouldn’t it be great?!  No one asks you where the pew bows are, or when the florist should be there.  It WILL be great, because beginning next year, we will take care of all that for you.  Fort Wayne Defiance Ohio wedding planning

We’ve seen the need, we’ve discussed it, and we’ve decided we can provide this better than anyone.  Who knows the timeline of your day better than we do?  Who knows what’s most important and what you really do NOT want better than we do?  It’s a no brainer, and we are psyched about it!  We have hired someone with supreme organization, and an eye for detail to begin caring for our brides all day long.  It’s someone we’ve known for years, and who has a proven track record of caring for people in a way that makes them feel heard and cared for!  You’ll love her as much as we do!fort wayne indiana wedding planning

This is just another way for you to get the care you deserve to enjoy your wedding day, and let us provide you with what you need most!  A day of your own with your lover, pulled off like clockwork because we take the stress and leave you the fun!fort wayne wedding photographersfort wayne defiance ohio wedding coordinators

Beautiful Camera Bags for Women–FINALLY!

Hurray!  Ladies, we don’t have to cart around those awful things that look like newspaper men from the 70s.
Lookie here!

(I didn’t shoot this, guys)

There’s a contest to win one.  I’m entering…and if I don’t win–I will STILL have one by Christmas.
Enter here!  I did!

Melissa and TJ’s Engagement







You know…by the end of the year, as I limp out of the last reception
hall, and I have hugged my last bride and groom of the year…after I
start the van and feel like tears are IMMINENT, I’m sooooooo tired…THAT’S
when I say to myself “Thank goodness this is it for a while!”  I
rejoice.  I tell my fellow photogs “I’m done!  I’m
done!  I survived another year!”
Then this happens:
I meet (again) a bride who signed me over a year ago.  I see her
and think “OH YEAH!” and recall the special qualities I recognized
during our meeting.  She’s excited to see me, this means it’s official–they really
ARE getting married.  My relationship with them is finally
underway, and many times, this is my first meeting with her
Romeo.  This time was like that.  TJ shook my hand firmly (I
love that in a man) and looked me right in the eyes.  He was
excited too.
At first the couple does not know what to do.  They feel
awkward.  They stand together unnaturally.  They’re suddenly
awkward together.  They’re embarrassed at first.
My advice for these people, so excited and scared, and unfamiliar with
me and my shooting style is “Just be together!  I’ll get
it.”  Subtle, if any direction…I get excited.  I show them
something magical I caught…  They get excited.  They
remember why they chose me.  He relaxes, and magic starts to
happen.  This last one made me gasp when I got home, and
unloaded my card.  I GOT IT.  He looked at her, they trusted
me, I hit the shutter release- POW.
I’m ready ready ready for wedding season again.
I love my job.
How lucky am I?
TJ, nice to meet you.  I won’t let you down.

Adam and Brittany’s Engagement!

Adam and Brittay are a cool couple. They met online, and “cyber dated” for a while. She teaches school and he writes a sports column in Ohio. They’re fun and quirky, and smart and happy. I’m excited to shoot their wedding in June! This was shot in the booming metropolis of Celina, OH. (Which Adam claims is the only other site than the Grand Canyon that can be seen form the moon!) I hope to work there again. Very cute little old town!